While a mother’s love is invaluable, there are many fathers the world over who have had to assume the role of both parents. As a single parent to three teenage boys, Richard Moshette’s story of raising his children can be a true inspiration to many.
The 43 – year-old, Region 2 resident has been the sole bread winner and care giver for his family ever since his wife of 13 years, left their home. During an interview with the Sunday Times Magazine, Richard disclosed that he puts his responsibility to his children above all else. This he pointed out revolves around the role of mother and father.
Caregiver
“Well I got to try with it. I never give up and as long as I live, is me will look after them to the last,” the father explained as he gave some insight to what his days are like. While there are many other fathers who also struggle with multiple roles, Richard’s case is quite unique; not only is he a single parent but the hardworking care giver is also an amputee.
A few years ago, he made the difficult decision to amputate his right leg, due to diabetes. This “difficult decision” was made to ensure he would live to care for his three sons. According to the man, his troubles escalated from there as shortly after, his wife left.
“She left me with the three boys. She left them but I never gave up. How could a mother do that to she own children? Richard questioned.
Even with his physical challenges, the father of three does not have the luxury of dwelling on his circumstances; rather, he works tirelessly to ensure his boys can improve their chances in life.
He proudly explained that, although he has difficulty getting around with just one leg, he ensures his children are taken care of , most importantly, he ensures that they get the necessary education.
“The boys are now 18, 16 and 14- years old now; the big one is out of school and he working and would help out. The other two still in school .I doing what I can for them now, it is up to them when they grow big…” he continued.
Provider
Toy making is now his primary source of income, and according to the father, it requires a lot of patience and determination. He said “From the time I open my eyes in the morning I make sure I get food on, then I wash and after I sit and make the toys. I sit there until about three in the afternoon. It take patience too. Then I have to get dinner. It lil’ hard but when the boys get bigger it will get better.” He jokingly explained that he wished the nights were longer, so that he could get a little more sleep.
“From the time I wake in the morning, I think about making an extra dollar for my children. Sometimes I sell one toy and that would be enough for the day. I will never give up as a father,” Richard added.
Before his amputation, Richard worked as carpenter; however, he had to search for another source of income after losing his leg. That was when he remembered making toy tractors during his childhood. He then visited a nearby sawmill and requested “scrap” wood, which he crafted into a fun toy tractor. Subsequently, he made a toy Hymac, a truck and an entire house. According to the toymaker, his craft is supported by the villagers, who continue to give him encouragement.
He said, “The families in Essequibo support the business. The main challenge is getting the toys to Georgetown.” The toy maker also has high praises for his mother, Rosie Moshette, for giving him faith and support.
Richard recently participated in the Essequibo Expo and proudly explained that he did manage to sell a few pieces.
Counselor
Despite the demands on his time and the great amount of energy it takes to complete the daily routine, the doting father still finds the time to sit and talk to his sons; advising them and showing them the value of hard work and sacrifice.
“I sit and talk to them. They know the value of hard work and I also tell them about my life . Like before my leg was cut off, I have lots of friends coming by, after there was no one. They don’t follow friends and so,” he stated.
With no knowledge of what the future holds, the father of three affirmed that he will continue to work tirelessly to ensure that his boys are taken care of. “Me nah rest,” he declared. He also expressed the hope that when his sons are older , they will live by his example. (Guyana Times Sunday Magazine)
